Larry Kramer has been flexing his activist muscle even more than usual lately. Last week he and others from ACT UP were demonstrating in the street against Gen. Peter Pace's anti-gay rhetoric. He also gave an impassioned Kramer-style state of the gay movement speech at the LGBT Center in New York in which he lambasted gays for being too passive.Today, Kramer lets his anger rip in a strongly worded editorial in the L.A. Times. In 'Why Do Straights Hate Gays?' Kramer directs his wrath and exasperation directly at heterosexuals and charges them not only with hating gays but being complicit in keeping us down. He demands answers on issues of hate crimes protections, spousal-survivor benefits/law, ignoring the persecution of gays overseas and more. After listing recent examples of homophobia in public discourse (Pace, Coulter, et al), he states:
"And there's no sign that this situation will change anytime soon. President Bush will leave a legacy of hate for us that will take many decades to cleanse. He has packed virtually every court and every civil service position in the land with people who don't like us. So, even with the most tolerant of new presidents, gays will be unable to break free from this yoke of hate. Courts rule against gays with hateful regularity. And of course the Supreme Court is not going to give us our equality, and in the end, it is from the Supreme Court that such equality must come. If all of this is not hate, I do not know what hate is ...
... Why do you [straight people] hate us so much that you will not permit us to legally love? I am almost 72, and I have been hated all my life, and I don't see much change coming.
I think your hate is evil."
Today's L.A. Times piece is classic Kramer:
In your face, no holds-barred, nail-spittingly angry words meant to wake people up. Larry Kramer doesn't push the envelope so much as he kicks it off the desk, stomps up and down on it and then expects you to eat it. Which is why people like Larry Kramer are important for gay rights.
The GLBT community's affection for Larry Kramer ranges from love and repect to vehement disdain and dismissal. As in the case of Rosie O'Donnell, it all depends who you ask. For my money, Kramer holds a place of honor in our community as a rabel-rouser extraordinaire. We need voices that will speak in the extreme. Without Kramer's anger, the battle to raise awareness about the AIDS epidemic in the 80s would have been very different. His brand of passion is a necessary ingredient in all struggles that seek to upset the status quo.
If you have a problem with the way he ruffles people's feathers, I'm here to say that we need him as much as we need the nice gay folks in suits who work the halls of Congress and state houses, or the armchair activists who write checks to gay groups and letters to companies who don't treat gays equally, or the nice gay guy or lesbian who doesn't push buttons but chooses to win people over by being nice and "normal." I think of Larry Kramer as the Special Forces of the gay movement: He shoots to kill.
Although I agree with many of his points, my problem with Kramer's piece in today's newspaper is that he comes off sounding whiney rather than forceful, and I rather doubt that his accusatory tone will be very well tolerated or understood by the very audience he's addressing, i.e., straight people. Plenty of gay people don't want to hear what he has to say -- primarily because Kramer's accusations about how uninvolved most gays are in the fight for GLBT rights hit a little too close to home (we've got vacations to plan!) -- I can't imagine how straight America will even begin to know how to process his claims. Seventy percent of persuasion is knowing your audience, and in this case I think Kramer's rant won't do much to change hearts and minds.
But I'm still glad Larry Kramer raises hell.
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Tuesday 20 March
By Dara
I dont hate you, I love you :)
I think there are a few posing some questions, to Barack, in particular...one of my friends in my myspace page even asked in a comment on the Barack site. I spotted his question, I am sure others have, too. He said (my friend) that he hears politicians saying stuff like "why should we make gays feel all 'warm and fuzzy' when they are only 8% of the population?", etc...I am like whatever, 8% sounds wrong--I think it is much higher than that, and they need to realise the "8%" have family, friends, loved ones, and coworkers who ALL support them, and their rights to equal rights and protections under the law!--Irregardless...it should not even be an issue, everyone should have the same rights, no matter what! ~yet I remind myself that in my own lifetime Blacks were not even afforded the same rights as Whites, under the law...this country is screwed up! I was just telling a friend today, I wish we could all move past religious dogmas and so on, as humans as a whole, on this planet..and stress education~ in the sciences, arts, true history, sociology and so on...this Christian Right bull has gotten on my last nerve!
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Tuesday 20 March
By Red7Eric
Oh, I don't know. "I think your hate is evil" is pretty strong stuff. And y'know what? The right has a million loudmouths (Bill O'Reilly, Michael Savage, Ann Coulter, Sean Hannity, Rush Limbaugh) who say outrageous things and make Republican politicians seem moderate by comparison. Why shouldn't we take a page outta that book?
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Tuesday 20 March
By ryan alvarado
i do not hate the gay community, but rather do not support it. the bible says that homosexuality is wrong. i believe every word in it and i believe that comparing yourselves with african americans in believing you have both been discriminated against the same way is ignorant. for i have yet to see a water fountain, a bathroom, a restaurant or anything with a sign on it labeled, "straights only". i stand up for what is right, but i will not stand for this gay movement. maybe you will see my point.
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Wednesday 21 March
By Kevyn
If we don't have water fountains for straights only, it's because the right wing fanatics are too busy ruining my chances of getting married or getting health care for my partner. They have their priorities, after all. But in their view of an ideal world, I have no doubt that straight-only water fountains figure prominently.
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Thursday 22 March
By CPT_Doom
Ryan,
You certainly have every right not to support the gay community, just as I have the right to refuse to support the psuedo-Christian cultists, known as "evangelicals." What I do not have a right to do is insist that all those who choose the evangelical lifestyle are evil, perverted, and a threat to civilization. I do not have the right to insist that my personal beliefs about those who commit the sin of heresy should then be translated into public law.
The Catholic church in Massachusetts, after 20 years of complying with the laws granting gays and lesbians equal rights in adoption, suddenly this year decided it was a threat to their "religious freedom" to continue. Yet the Church had no problem treating adulterers, heretics, blasphemers, pagans, fornicators and others who had chosen "immoral lifestyles" (which includes anyone who is not a practicing Catholic in good standing with the Church). Why is it appropriate to tolerate only some immorality? Why is the church, and for that matter any church or faith community, so bent on enacting laws that dismiss the value of ALL gay and lesbian lives? Why are we considered the worst people in the world?
Wherever you live, Ryan, no matter how rural, you deal with gay and lesbian people on a weekly basis, if not daily (according to the 2000 Census, 99% of the counties in America had same-sex domestic partners; we are everywhere). The next time you take a stroll around your city or town, the next time you stop and listen to a group of kids laughing on a playground, the next time you are in a movie theater, consider that at least 1 of ever 20 people you see is GLBT. How many of them are a threat to you at that moment? How many of them do you feel you have to stop to continue living your life?
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Wednesday 21 March
By The Gay Species
WARNING: Logical fallacies ahead
Larry Kramer, the cantankerous "gay" activist, the originator of ACT-UP, and author of Faggot, proves once again, that extremism in search of an aged activist always seems to find Kramer ready at the draw (from the Los Angeles Times):
DEAR STRAIGHT PEOPLE,
Why do you hate gay people so much?
Gays are hated. Prove me wrong. Your top general just called us immoral. Marine Gen. Peter Pace, chairman of the Joint Chiefs, is in charge of an estimated 65,000 gay and lesbian troops, some fighting for our country in Iraq. A right-wing political commentator, Ann Coulter, gets away with calling a straight presidential candidate a faggot . . . . [continue at the link above, signed "Larry Kramer"]
You can purchase Kramer's own book Faggots from Amazon.com. Kramer revels in his flurries of double-standards, his ill-advised activism (e.g., that closed the Golden Gate Bridge to piss-off commuters already supportive of AIDS research), and raises doubts about Kramer's claims that he and his partner's weekly jaunts to NYC's bathhouses and comparing each other's tricks fosters a "healthy" relationship (but since "partner" cannot voice his views, we may never know the truth).
Maybe, "safe-sex" and less promiscuous tricks would not need his ACT-UP advocacy that annoys and alienates an already supportive constituency for another one of Kramer's ill-advised stunts? For a p.r. move, few excced this Kramer gimmick for its stupidity and adverse fallout. But maligning Coulter for her use of "faggot" while writing a book with the title Faggots, well . . . .
As my best friend is fond of reminding me, "being gay is no excuse for being stupid." Frankly, nothing excuses being stupid. But, Kramer proves being gay seems to excuse Kramer's own hypocrisy and reckless thinking. Or, do I hear another fallacy of special pleading coming to his defense? It's probably Kramer speaking -- he often speaks before he thinks, and what he thinks is often stupid . . . [and the chorus repeats:] "being gay is no excuse for being stupid."
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Thursday 22 March
By Rick
If you read Larry's speech that he delivered at the LGBT Community Center in NYC recently, or listen to it, you will find that he is far from stupid, and clearly gives a great deal of thought to what he says. It does not take a genius to see how the LGBT Community is so easily placated by thin representations of themselves on TV, empty promises by politicians for support and the simple comforts of basically being left alone (read:invisible) by most of the straight community.
Gay generations to come will look in the history books for c*ck sucking forefathers and they won't find them. Like us, they will discover something about themselves and feel shameful or lost, because so little proof of their real existence will be available to them. They may even look upon us, myself included, as the ones who did nothing to save themselves.
This is why Larry Kramer and his words and deeds are so important. The fact that they are forgotten, wiped away or ridiculed is the symptom of the sickness today. The dis-ease we should be fighting today, using the tools Larry Kramer would gladly leave for us if we could only recognize them for what they are, is complacency.
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Thursday 22 March
By Charlie Brennan
Larry is old, has always been cantankarous, has often viewed the gay community through a bitter lens; all this is true. He has also contributed enormously to the AIDS movement and deserves all our gratitude. His position is rather like Ralph Nader's; you forget that he virtually invented the seatbelt and saved thousands of American lives; you just remember that you don't much like his gloomy, wrinkled old face and grandstanding attitude.
Kramer's a great man, and he overestimates the hate that is in America, which is virtually split down the middle, with the old haters dying off (sadly Kramer will be gone before they are) and the rising generation unable to care about sexual habits or homosexuals. The Evil Christians are a paper tiger, self-contradictory, philosophically and legally sterile, openly violent and hateful, self-devouring and, above all, ignorant. This is a world of information; enforced ignorance is no longer even a possibility. Freedom and chaos expand on their own, oppression needs constant policing.
Larry's wrong. The environment may be fucked; the world economy may collapse, but nobody's going back into the closet ever again. We have to stay angry and confident. This is not about gays as much as it is about guarding against fascism, true fascism that seeks to control every aspect of life, not just sexuality.
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Friday 23 March
By Lorie
Yes! but do you have any guesses?
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Thursday 29 March
By anonymous (however u spell that)
God help us....ewww is premartial sex as nasty in god's eyes as this? i don't see the connection honestly...
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Thursday 29 March
By Stephen
I agree with Ryan though, i don't hate gays in any way, and in some respect i think being gay is just as immoral as adultery, but adultery isn't as visible a sin as being gay. That is why gays and lesbians etc. are persecuted so much. But don't worry about it, i'm sure eventually something will turn the worlds attention to focus their hate on someone else. God loves all, God forgives all, so why can't I?
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Tuesday 03 April
By Dean
Larry
DO HETROSEXUALS STILL HATE GAYS!!! As a hetrosexual in Ireland I'm currently involved in Kramers play 'The Normal Heart'being performed all over Ireland. Its a fantastic play & has that Kramer bite. But doing the play in the most hetro-hetrosexual places in good old catholic Ireland I feel the sense of appreciation for the play & it's subject has really taken me aback. The Irish people I have encountered during the course of this play really don't hate gays. They don't hate love. Which is what it all comes down to. The long going problem I still find from the time that the play was first written & now is that most gays I know still don't know how to love, and further more all governments & power establishments still don't trust anything that is deemed as a marginalised community. Thats my read on it, maybe I'm way off the mark.
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Tuesday 03 April
By Franklin Isaacs
I cannot take anymore of the stupidity that the religous fanactics continue to try and jamb down our throats. The blacks that continue to say they believe every word in the bible .. Do you not know that jesus supported slavery and the right to own them. But now the times have changed and that is no longer true. Yet it is planly written in the Bible. Well no one knows Gods plan maybe more gays to control population, better than abortion Id say. Loveing and careing for all mankind. Be proud for we are all the children of God and love those who hate us as God commands Love to you all Frank
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Friday 06 April
By JOE BLACK
WELL SIR;
I AM 7 YEARS YOUNGER, AND I HAVE BEEN HATED FOR AS LONG AS I CAN REMEMBER....AND GOD BLESS YOU, NUMBER 72 :}
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Saturday 14 April
By Oryana
with the more important things that are going on in this nation, why does anybody care who i lay my head next to every night?
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